We need your help Secret Stander Secret Pal Gift This Mission is Possible Hurry!!

We need your URGENT HELP in this hour!!! Counting down the days we have left to Ship out to our faithful friends as I am writing this today. We need YOUR help. Even if you live in another country...and the Holiday greeting is a bit late we need your continued efforts in this project. Please drop US a line or encourage another Stander who we select this year. We have SO many needs this year!! ...So we are praying these blessings into overflow. He is using US all as His faithful vessels! Just pray & obey please. Please Please.....help in blessing a Stander(s) this year near or far. Perhaps some Stander that you have never even met. You may never meet on this side of eternity yet God connects the dots. You just never know. I've been blessed enough to meet many in person. This task is pretty easy. Just send out a little or big gift of love to someone who's Standing anomously. You just never know how much they may be hurting and feeling isolated and alone. You'll be in that line anyway sending out packages so what's one more??? We will turn around and mail them back out as fast as humanly possible with our long list for 2013. Some are at the tippy top!! Address listed below. How great is our God who can use you & I to bless them as much or as little...some have kids & grown kids who are still hurting and could use this added joy & encouragement. Many of us celebrate this holiday season in which this has just began in different days & even beliefs. Let that never stop you from reaching this high calling to encourage and help fellow like minded Standers. We have a few things in common & that's not just standing...its the Love of God for all His Glory!!! Amen Details to are below!! Happy Holidays to you ALL!! I have listed an address below for holiday greetings etc... We would live to do this all year long honestly. I think we will depending on the results from this season 2013. For more info. Message me on Facebook or Sharon.n@live.com We also have a physical address of our ministry.....just kind of thinking we won't keep it up for very long. Who knows! Many need this this year so please don't overlook it!! God Bless & Thank You for your faithfulness!! Sincerely, Sharon & Karleigh 2149 Roos Ave S.W. Grand Rapids, Mi 49509-1978 Standing trusting & Seeing His love around the world for restorations & marriages until His great return!!

Are you new to Standing? Are you a seasoned Stander still obeying & waiting?

I have to tell you that no matter if you are new to this thing called a Stand or are a seasoned veteran you should know how blessed you are today. Don't you dare give up and give into disobedience!! Much is stored up for you for your part & obedience. You simply do your part & He will be faithful to bring this to pass in completion. It is so very important that you stand because its bigger than you. Its about turning the tide breaking off generational curses & cycles. It will being a great deliverance to the entire of body of Christ. It will set many captives free which includes your mate of your youth and other family members. The key is that they must trust and one as well as come to the end of themselves. This all takes time and sometimes years. In our microwave society people want instant everything. Please know that God doesn't think like we do. His ways are always higher. Surrender it all at the foot of the cross and serve Him speaking in boldness and truth even if you think nobody is even listening. Think about Noah and him building an Ark. Talk about doubting Thomases huh? They are everywhere we turn. I pray beloved that you have the faith to dig those heels in until you see your miracle come to pass. I pray that you also remain single and obey scripture. I hear and council so many people that have simply given up & given into the worlds ways and no longer Gods ways according to his written word. They simply don't think this stand is for them. They don't want to be alone etc... I've heard it all. It all boils down to lusts of the flesh. If you have fallen from your stand and your mate of your youth does nothing but causes you trouble & heartache then stop and praise the Lord. He is making you stronger to learn to win them without a word. What your mate is actually doing is rebelling from God. They aren't running from you they are running from them. If they are with another person (perhaps even have done the unmentionable remarriage) Don't think that its all over. God is still with you and takes that Cov. Marriage vow before Him & witnesses seriously until death do one of YOU part. Which means until death of a living partner not a marriage. This is a spiritual battle which seems like a physical battle. God knows and sees your heart. If you have a hard heart towards that mate you need to right now repent for your hardness of heart and bitterness. No you can't make someone obey God. You can't make someone live you. But God!!!! He can touch you and your mate right where you are at given any moment in time. Its hard to trust and its hard to love the unlovable and yet we can clearly see that's what God expects of us. He wants us to walk in unconditional love & forgiveness. We are the vessels He's using in this latter hour to bring these prodicals home to Him first. Your job as a Stander is to pray & fast. Look to God and His Word for answers. Its part of your walk right now. Get those scriptures & promises back down in your spirit man. If you are a new believer than learn all you can at a deeper level. Don't be swayed by mans laws and religious ways. Study yourself approved. If there is an area of improvement that you need to make in yourself during this time than do it! A word of Caution here would be not to try to prove yourself or your stand to your mate. That's the last thing you need to be doing. Who wants to hang with a know it all all puffed up and hautey. Its not even about you or the duration of time that it takes for their return back to the family and you. The only thing that's going to matter is what you do during your stand for Christ during this duration of time. Again here....serving the Lord no matter what the outcome. Your first love should be the Lord anyways and not your mate of your youth. Everyone wants the miracle of their mate of their youth coming home and yet they don't think that they have what it takes to believe, stand and wait for the turn around. Were you not called to obey scripture? It clearly states that you must reconsile as well not remarry. If you have...its time for YOU to obey & go back to your first love as well. Its repentance time and God will indeed be the judge and jury. How will you be found today? Guilty or not guilty. Those feelings you feel can be masked yet you know deep down the Lords been dealing with you to flee from the sin you are currently in. Once you set your foot towards the door to make things right again imagine not the distruction of the relationship you were once in. Imagine being set free on the right pathway that is narrow again. Don't be one of those who follow the masses on that wide road. In the end its not the wide its the narrow and more costly one because you did it all for the glory of God. You will only see it when you obey. Stop the delays in this hour and be what He called you to be. It was never suppose to be the easy sin of fleshly desires. You know it and feel always anxious and unsatisfied. God is the only thing that can ever satisfy. Its time to run that race as a leader once again! Amen. Fear not! God is with you & for you. Run! God bless you and multiply what you need in doing what's set before you. Our ministry team is praying for you 24/7 around the clock someone is up. Our God can do anything on a dime & an instant if He chooses. However many yet to see the process of the journey that they are on in this latter hour.

Was posting such an awesome message and poof its gone. Will repost with backup scriptures.

I have to tell you guys that it was for older standers who are seasoned & new standers. I know holidays are SO difficult for many of you. I will post again tomorrow. This is not the time to give in nor give up! What we do for Christ in this latter hour is the only thing that's going to matter. Bless as many people as you can these next few months. You are blessed!!! Forgive and repent for your part and distruction of your 1st marriage. Its time to turn some hardened unforgiving bitter hearts back over to the Lord completely no matter what has happened. If you are in adultery in this hour and/or married the other person who you were in adultery with distorting your view. Its time man or woman of God to GO HOME! Its not my Word its His. He's been waiting for your obedience instead of your ongoing justification walking away from His truths into the enemies camp filled with more and more lies. Make this holiday season the best ever for your family & do a suddenly going back to your family & wife or husband of your youth. Many are watching your walk in obedience or disobedience. Leaders do what the Lord commands & is against. And one of them is making people think that the marriage institution is a temp situation. Gods design is for that 1st marriage to be holy and being of one wife (or husband).Quit agreeing with the world and most churches of today who are in bed (in adultery). Its time for boldness in the spirit to turn the tide of these nations against the enemies agenda of the enemy. He does not win our 1st Cov. Marriages nor our families! Fight for what is right again! God gave you your own family not that of another mans wife or husband. They too we pray will wake up from the Proverbs Trail to the pit. Its not about us. Its all about the pure bride of Christ. Get the wrinkles out and stop pretending you are without spots. Your robe awaits you. Gods not done with you. Obey Him and let Him open & shut those needs doors. I pray you all have the best holiday season ever! May your focus be on the Lord in his hour. Much is happening in this hour. I hope you'll dance & rejoice in knowing what hour we are currently in. Go HOME!! Repent!! Forgive!! They love you and everything will be okay. It may not be easy yet it will be worth it. Amen Praying for each and everyone of you today.

If I knew THEN what I know NOW! Moms this one is for YOU!!

It has been my mission all along to help others like us on this journey. Many of you already know that. You have read much of my journey along the way over the years. I have been meaning to post this for many days now and I will tell you why. Many Moms (and Dads) need to get funding for so much walking and waiting out this Stand. They need funding for simple things like Car Payments, House payments and just putting food on the table (just to name a few). I'm going to let you know right up front not to waste another moment in worry. The Lord will and always provides. It may be in a way that you have never thought. I am going to keep this short and sweet. I hope anyways. Don't waste another moment that you have been given on further delays. Improve yourself in as many areas as you possibly can. I went back to College and LOVE IT! I am able to take On-line classes. I put myself on that backburner and took care of my husband and children first. I believed that was what I was suppose to do as a high calling. I trained them up while working on my own business in my home. I had the best and still do of BOTH WORLDS. You can still use your knowledge from this walk as well as instruction! Study yourself approved! Most of ALL GROW!! Get out and meet people! I have also gained extra employment in working for these companies...one of which is earth moving honestly. I will gladly help you in any way you need me to help launch you too. OUR Mission is helping Women LIKE US get a foot back in the door again and in helping others who otherwise may not be able to buy simple things. Some Standers kids go without of Birthdays and Holidays on a single parents income (or nothing). You and I can HELP one another never have to walk this road!!! There are MANY ways you and I can help. If you are one of those people you are not alone. We would be blessed to pray with you and for you. We believe in giving a hand up! You can simply set up a Website with the company for $40.00 or you can order a Kit which is an investment but with it since you get a ton of jewelry with your kit. To join me or order look for me on Facebook!! Under Sharon Nichols https://www.facebook.com/sharon.nichols.1426 Click on the event FB tab and "join" to get in on the fun!!!! Its called Paparazzi and my consultant number to sign up under me is # 22338 If you are NEW to my Page come SEE Our Business offers! DIVE IN DEEP!!!! Paparazzi Jewelry details where you can sign up to Sell for only $40.00 and earn 45 percent commissions!! Perhaps it may hurt at first but it will be well worth it. These months are sell out months! I will help mentor you every step of the way. Get paid immediately! Ships fast to your doorstep! You are in control of growth of your own company with this AWESOME company! ALL products sell for $5.00 plus tax! Great ways to make some extra cash! Adoorables Divas Boutique Independent (Business Owner) For MORE INFO or to Hostess an Online Party. Join etc....Contact me at Sharon.n@live.com Sigh up using ID # 22338 More pictures will be added. They do sell out very quickly!!! Paparazzi Jewelry by Sharon & Karleigh Adoorables Divas Boutique OUR PAGE LINK is listed below. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Paparazzi-Jewelry-by-Sharon-Karleigh-Adoorables-Divas-Boutique/183691398487287 I would not offer you something that would waste your time and talents or money. This one is a no brainier. Here is our Sign up and its quick and easy! It will be the BEST money that you have ever spent! https://extranet.securefreedom.com/paparazzi/Signup/EnrollNew_Ask.asp?Msg=Invalid%20Rep%20Number.&ReturnURL=&Products= You can view the products here below on this link! Come join me! http://www.paparazziaccessories.com/our-products/ Best of ALL 10 percent of my sales goes back into the ministry to help others like US! God knows my heart is for Him and His Kingdom. Many of us in this business are Christian. Amen I also have another company as well that you can check into...I'll add that later. Blessings and I pray that you not only join my team and/or buy from us but that you also blossom and grow with the Lord with this awesome opportunity before you right now. God Bless! Sharon

Its not LOVE...Its LUST!

I saw this today as I was updating our Blog! I will be posting more when I can today & through this holiday weekend. I know for a fact that the month of November/December are so hard for many of you since if you share custody...more than likely this is somebody's month. Not always...some don't get to see their kids at all. When we surrender to mans law instead of God's laws that is what happens. Many of us by no choice of ours had to surrender to this position for our marriages, families and kids. The enemy doesn't ever fight fair so don't ever expect him to do so. When he goes after that 1st Cov marriage he pretty much goes for the jugular. Marriage and families are the backbone of America (any country for that matter). It throws most families into turmoil and destruction pretty quickly... It reduces the parent who was not prepared for such an event into such a deep level of pain that sometimes it is hard to recover in a tail spin.. But that is where our God steps in! You kids need to see the strongest you possible through this process. That doesn't mean not getting real with them. It means protecting their hearts from more pain and making them think either Mom or Dad has it all together. Because when it comes down to it...its just smoke and mirror. The parent who "Moved On" in wrong council may has found someone but it was to fill that empty void of needing someone to make them feel that they are okay. They want to make their 1st mate look as horrible as possible so that they can prove themselves worthy of doing right. It is nothing but another ploy of the enemy. If that other mate knew what a wonderful person you really were(most of the time..nobody's perfect)...that OW or OM would surely wonder what they were leaving their family and every content that they have for meaningless lust & fill in sex void (lets get real here its NOT LOVE). Many are going after possessions and belongings to take a fast track to reach perhaps the top of the ladder. Anything that is not built on the foundation of God's design will FAIL! Its just a matter of time. They can bail out the water from the titanic as much as they want...they can keep up appearances that everything is OK. But the fact of the matter is they have the same problems if not worse in the other relationship...its just a matter of time before they come to the surface...WHY? Because neither person has ever really changed. If they did change they would have worked it out in their 1st marriage They don't have to strive to make changes in their opinion because they are thinking that they have it all together. Keep this in mind that ONLY Fools rush in...a 1st marriage was custom designed by the Lord to last a lifetime. Look for those mentors who have stuck it OUT!!! Quit going to the broken church and leadership that is in wrong position thinking because these people are in another marriage...they have the go ahead an secrets to a successful marriage. It is nothing but completely lies from the enemy! I am not saying that God cant use YOU!! He CAN! You have gone through the brokenness and pain and have allowed the Lord to mold and fix you. You looked to the Lord to fix the fix and not the world. He hears your hearts desire and has GREAT plans for you ahead. You do your part and repent for your part as you WAIT upon the Lord for completion. As much as it hurts right now...BE ENCOURAGED! Don't go the wrong way now and go the same path as another...the Church will be held accountable. Have no blood on your hands! Help turn this tide around to BREAK OFF the generational sin cycles OR see the same pattern repeated in your childrens lives. The sins of the fathers are passed down. If you know scripture...you will see how the enemy goes after our SEED! That would be your children!!! Or your children to come. Nobody is immune. What we do for Christ is what matters...everything else will be burned away! The Lord is coming back for a Bride without SPOT nor WRINKLE!!! So are you going to be the iron in the fire? Or just another Wrinkle? Be a SPOT REMOVED!!! AMEN! Praying for many in this hour to get right and STAY right.....

Restoration & Reconciliation during the process of Renewal God determines the times and seasons

This is our Ministry's Mission ONE! A bit more of an explanation here for those who need a better understanding of what the Lord requires of us in any relationship. Restoration, this is the word used to portray God’s desire to return our souls to their original design and proper function. In the context of the ministry, our work involves working alongside the Holy Spirit in restoring an individual’s soul to a healthier place or condition, where life can be lived more fully in right relationship with God and others. He is a God who desires that our souls are restored, and that we walk in right living with Him and others. He does His work of restoration in a person’s life as proof of His ever-loving character to us. All we can do is to join Him in this work. Renewal, another word used to portray a desire of God. In another prayerful Psalm of David, God speaks to us about renewal. The Holy Spirit is in us and also works within us to renew us by cleaning our hearts while transforming our minds. Replacing our false beliefs and erroneous attitudes within the heart, with godly beliefs and attitudes, cleans the heart. Renewal, another word used to portray a desire of God. Many times it is a hard process but the Lord is there with us always. PHILIPPIANS 3:10-11 " I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead. " I PETER 4:12-13 " Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed." PHILIPPIANS 1:29 " For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for him,". Reconciliation, this is third word we use it to describe a desire that God has for us. There are two major aspects of reconciliation to consider, an individual’s reconciliation with God, and with others. God is reminding us that He has done everything necessary to reconcile us to Him, we have become “new creatures”; Christians. his means that as we minister to others, we must be able to address the relationship of a person being served with God. If a person is an unbeliever, we must do some work with them pointing them to Jesus. If they are a believer, we may have to work at strengthening the believer’s faith in God and all that His reconciliation means to them. The second aspect of reconciliation is that of person-to-person relationships. Jesus addressed this in Matt 5:23-24 Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering. Jesus places reconciliation between people in a very important position. He basically tells us that before we come to worship God, and when we remember that we have an issue with someone, we must address that issue first. 2 CORINTHIANS 12:9-10 " But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." Jesus considered reconciliation as so important that He gave Himself up for it, and He asks us to do the same. As we minister to others we must be able to address any needs for reconciliation that the Holy Spirit prompts in those we serve. We are to always be mindful of relationships of those we serve to others in their lives. We have to do this in our ministry as well. When we do counseling many times there very well could be barriers to their personal progress to wholeness because of issues of a relational nature. Jesus counted this as so important that He told us to deal with them before we worshiped Him. Jesus considered reconciliation as so important that He gave Himself up for it, and He asks us to do the same. As we minister to others we must be able to address any needs for reconciliation that the Holy Spirit prompts in those we serve. We work alongside and under the direction of the Holy Spirit to perform God’s work of restoration, renewal and reconciliation in the lives of the broken-hearted. 2 CORINTHIANS 2:14-15 " But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him. For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing." **The answer to the question of what do we, the ministry of Marriage Restoration 101 & The Season of Hosea. Please be sure to find us on our Facebook page under Sharon Nichols. I am connected with some wonderful prayer teams who will faithfully prays for the masses as the requests come in. I am very selective as to who sees and prays for those requests. We would love to connect with you and council in complete agreement. Remember that God does hear our prayers. We need to make sure that we are doing our part in application first. Then leave the rest up to the Holy Spirit. We are here for you and you can find out more about our Ministry services on our Webpage(s). You should be able to find our connecting Websites on one of our other pages. I will double check and see if they are still there for you. If not hold on more help is on the way! We are gathering as many resources as possible in this latter hour. It is critical that you are praying more than ever. Be sure that you are also fasting! God determines the times and seasons “It is God who alters the times and seasons, and he removes kings and promotes kings. He gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to the discerning. “(Daniel 2:21) The joy of the Lord is your spiritual strength. (Neh. 8:10) Praise God that in His presence is fullness of joy and in His right hand are pleasures forevermore. (Psa 16:9-11) God bless you this week. Please know that you are NOT alone on this journey. He has called you for such a time as this. Amen Stand strong & of great courage. In His Service, Sharon Nichols

Please see our URGENT message this Season!! "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18

Psalm 147:3 " He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. " Psalm 34:18 "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." The Lord is close to those who are broken hearted and crushed in their spirit. There are many experiences in life that can break our hearts such as disappointments, deaths , hurts , failures ,missed opportunities, loss etc. At such times we may be lonely and feel forsaken by others. But the wonderful promise is that the Lord is close to us at such times. Psalm 51:17 "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. " The Lord heals our broken hearts and wants us to minister to others who are going through the same experience in their lives. Whenever we go through an experience of brokenness in our lives , we are in an unique position to be used by the Lord to minister healing and restoration to the broken hearted . Psalm 23:3 - He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake. We must allow the Lord to heal our wounds and then we can use that healing experience to reach out to others and enable them to experience the same healing in their lives. Instead of mourning over our heart breaking experiences , we must see the possibility of using them to become a channel of healing to others. Psalm 51:10 – Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. John 12:24 " I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. " It is God who desires that our souls are restored, and that we walk in right living with Him and others. He does His work of restoration in a person’s life as proof of His ever-loving character to us. The best thing that we can do is to join Him in this daily work. Rom 12:2 – And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. I Peter 2:24 "He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been healed." The Lord is seated on the throne of Grace with a heart of compassion towards us because He can sympathize with all our weaknesses. We can always approach Him confidently in our many times of brokenness because He understands us and sympathizes with our weaknesses and He is ready to shower His grace and mercy upon us. Hebrews 4:15-16 " For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. "