Two wrongs don't ever make something right....July

I saw this today as I was updating our Blog! I will be posting more when I can today & through this holiday weekend. I know for a fact that the month of July is so hard for many of you since if you share custody...more than likely this is Dads month. Not always...some don't get to see their kids at all. When we surrender to mans law instead of God's laws that is what happens. Many of us by no choice of ours had to surrender to this position for our marriages, families and kids. The enemy doesn't ever fight fair so don't ever expect him to do so. When he goes after that 1st cov marriage he pretty much goes for the jugular. Marriage and families are the backbone of America (any country for that matter). It throws most families into turmoil and destruction pretty quickly... It reduces the parent who was not prepared for such an event into such a deep level of pain that sometimes it is hard to recover in a tail spin.. But that is where our God steps in! You kids need to see the strongest you possible through this process. That doesn't mean not getting real with them. It means protecting their hearts from more pain and making them think either Mom or Dad has it all together. Because when it comes down to it...its just smoke and mirror. The parent who "Moved On" in wrong council may has found someone but it was to fill that empty void of needing someone to make them feel that they are okay. They want to make their 1st mate look as horrible as possible so that they can prove themselves worthy of doing right. It is nothing but another ploy of the enemy. If that other mate knew what a wonderful person you really were(most of the time..nobodys perfect)...that OW or OM would surely wonder what they were leaving their family and every content that they have for meaningless lust & fill in sex void (lets get real here its NOT LOVE). Many are going after possessions and belongings to take a fast track to reach perhaps the top of the ladder. Anything that is not built on the foundation of God's design will FAIL! Its just a matter of time. They can bail out the water from the titanic as much as they want...they can keep up appearances that everything is OK. But the fact of the matter is they have the same problems if not worse in the other relationship...its just a matter of time before they come to the surface...WHY? Because neither person has ever really changed. If they did change they would have worked it out in their 1st marriage They don't have to strive to make changes in their opinion because they are thinking that they have it all together. Keep this in mind that ONLY Fools rush in...a 1st marriage was custom designed by the Lord to last a lifetime. Look for those mentors who have stuck it OUT!!! Quit going to the broken church and leadership that is in wrong position thinking because these people are in another marriage...they have the go ahead an secrets to a successful marriage. It is nothing but completely lies from the enemy! I am not saying that God cant use YOU!! He CAN! You have gone through the brokenness and pain and have allowed the Lord to mold and fix you. You looked to the Lord to fix the fix and not the world. He hears your hearts desire and has GREAT plans for you ahead. You do your part and repent for your part as you WAIT upon the Lord for completion. As much as it hurts right now...BE ENCOURAGED! Don't go the wrong way now and go the same path as another...the Church will be held accountable. Have no blood on your hands! Help turn this tide around to BREAK OFF the generational sin cycles OR see the same pattern repeated in your childrens lives. The sins of th e fathers are passed down. If you know scripture...you will see how the enemy goes after our SEED! That would be your children!!! Or your children to come. Nobody is immune. What we do for Christ is what matters...everything else will be burned away! The Lord is coming back for a Bride without SPOT nor WRINKLE!!! So are you going to be the iron in the fire? Or just another Wrinkle? Be a SPOT REMOVED!!! AMEN! Praying for many in this hour to get right and STAY right.....