Healed Marriage Testimony Jensen's

Bob & Conchita Jensen Testimony After hearing from so many of our standers that Bob and Conchita was their favorite testimony tape of a restored marriage, I decided that I would like to make a brochure from the tape. I called Conchita to ask permission to write their story, and she very graciously gave it. I know many of you will say, "Thats me," as you read their story. We pray this brochure will be a blessing to you. Bob begins their testimony. I want to say that the reason were here to tell our story is not that weve done anything special. Its just that without his grace and his mercy in my life, I wouldnt be sitting here. Our prayer is, "What you have done in us, somehow use these imperfect vessels to reach out and touch other peoples lives." We are a healed marriage and we give all the glory to God. Our testimony is different than most in that I not only left my wife and divorced her, I got into adultery and married somebody else. I then divorced again and remarried Conchi. She prefers to use the word legal adultery rather than marriage, because it was never recognized in Gods eyes. Conchi was standing on the covenant she made at our marriage. Conchi tells her story. I was born in Madrid, Spain, and was raised in the church all my life. I really felt I was a Christian. Bob was in the Air Force there when we met and got married in 1965. For years, we felt we really had a good marriage, and we did. We never had strife in our marriage, and our children grew up in a very peaceful home. We were very active in our church and everyone said, "Bob and Conchita have a perfect marriage." But sometimes I felt empty. I said, "God, what is it? I have a wonderful husband, two children, a dog, a fence, and a nice home. What is going on?" I would tell myself that I should be grateful that my husband doesnt drink, run around, etc. Bob was having problems too, but we didnt confide in each other. Every time a marriage falls apart, I believe it is because of Satans plan to destroy the home. But God uses what Satan intends for harm for our good. I thought I was a Christian, but the night Bob left me, a friend brought me a booklet about marriage healing, and I accepted the Lord as my personal Savior. I instantly had a supernatural peace that never left. I had no family in this country to give me support; I had no job, and I was very dependent upon my husband in every area of my life. I had a phobia. I was scared to death to drive, and Bob had to drive me everyplace (God healed me of that, Praise the Lord). Now I had no options; I had to trust God and no one else. When Bob came back home to check on me three days later, he expected me to be a wreck, but I answered the door with "Oh Hi, Honey, how are you doing? He said to himself, "What is going on here?" Bob wasnt always able to pay child support, and I decided that if I could trust Jesus for the healing of my marriage, I could trust him for my finances. God found a job for me, and I found three Christian couples who became very close friends. Bob was involved with someone else, but he came back home six months after he left and stayed for a year. It was quite an adjustment for him. I was saved and did not cling to him like I did before. I had my self-worth in Christ. All my insecurities were gone. Bob had always told me to become more independent and not to be so clinging to him. When this actually happened he became jealous of God. Since we had been married for fifteen years and his wife changed from dependent to independent, it was really hard for Bob to understand. Plus . . . I made some boo-boos. It isnt a good idea to read the Bible when youre in bed with your husband, and he is unsaved. Its also not a good idea to listen to 700 Club when hes home, but I did. You may be on fire for the Lord, but dont flaunt it before your unsaved husband. This built a wall between us. When he left the second time and filed for divorce, the Lord said, "let go, and let me do it my way." So I said, "Whatever it takes, Lord, whatever it takes." When you pray that prayer, be ready. You cannot hang on to your nice house, your nice car, and getting your marriage healed the way you want it. Its going to be done Gods way, and He may have to do a work in your own life. Do not focus on the sins of your partner because when you do that, you become self-righteous. Just focus on Christ. I stood for my marriage for five and a half years while God did a work in MY life. Bob continues. Now for my side of the story. I had always gone to church, and I really felt I knew a lot about who Jesus was. After fifteen years of a model marriage, it was very evident to me that there was a big hole within me. I searched for what was open and available to me in the world. My intentions were good because I wanted to create a better life for my wife and children. I bought into the lie that if I could only have this or that, things would be much better. All of a sudden, I fell into a trap. I could blame others, but I made the choice to commit adultery. I went out and decided there was something a little bit better out there and left Conchi. Romans 8:28 tells us that God works everything for our good and He used my mistakes. After being home for a year, I still wasnt saved, and that emptiness was still there. As a Christmas present, I told her I was leaving her and getting a divorce . . . and I did. I got involved with a neighbor lady, and to make matters worse, I took my daughter with me and lived with this woman for a year. But I couldnt stay away from Conchi. I would come back home every few days, or once a week with the excuse, "I came to see the children." I did have a good relationship with them. My daughter was with me; our son was with her. But in truth, I came home to see Conchi. I had to psyche myself up to be disagreeable. But, she would irk me to no end. She always greeted me with a smile and would always let me know she loved me and would encourage me. I finally reached the point where my guilt was almost unbearable. I just knew that my sin was too much for Conchi to ever be able to forgive. I knew our marriage could never work out the way I wanted it to work out. One day she blew me away. I came by to see the children, and she said she had to ask my forgiveness. She told me she had had me up on a pedestal and that it wasnt fair to me. She told me she had made mistakes and she had spiritual pride and a lot of other things. That really did something to me, and something began working in my mind. I went home and began to throw myself into my work. I decided that it was about time for me to go find someone else since I had broken up with my neighbor, and so I did. She happened to be almost young enough to be my daughter. Conchita would never let me say I "married" this woman. She would always say I legalized my adultery in the eyes of the world, but not in the eyes of God. In the midst of this adulterous marriage, I got saved. But, I was helpless. By the way, that relationship began to fall apart before the honeymoon was over. In desperation, I gave my heart to Christ one Sunday morning. Everything went downhill from there. I was so hungry for God. I would go to every Bible study I could find and ask about Gods word. But, I would almost inevitably go to Conchi. I would call her on the phone when the alien wasnt home. I would call during work and ask her questions about God's Word. She always told me the uncompromising truth. She still believed our marriage would be healed but I thought, after all Im saved now, God loves me too and Im in another marriage. This relationship was in trouble and I began standing for my "marriage." My daughter told Conchi that our church was praying for our marriage. Conchi said "Praise the Lord, Dad only has one marriage in the eyes of God." As I was reading 1 Corinthians 7:20, my eyes fell on the verse that says that each one should remain in the situation hes in when God calls him. I remember throwing my Bible on the bed and jumping up and down and shouting, "Hallelujah, I knew it, I knew it!! Im right where God wants me to be." That shows you that Satan will even use the Scriptures to deceive us. The scripture wasnt talking about marriages there. God would never tell you if youre in adultery, stay there. Conchi shares that as she stood for her marriage, probably 90% of the people she knew had no idea what she was doing! And, they were Christians. They would say, "Poor Conchi, some day she will wake up. She is sure out in left field." Even my own pastor had no idea what I was doing. He thought one day I would wake up to reality. But be careful how you share your stand. Pray for others to have revelation in the area of standing. Dont hit them over the head with your stand. Some people stand for six months, some a year, some six years, some more. It is important to establish at the beginning of your stand that you have no other option. If you dont you will get discouraged and quit. Some standers choose not to allow God to do a work in them. They just want God to do a work in their mate. This is not a healthy stand, and I believe there will be marriages God wants to heal but because of the attitude of the stander, they wont be healed. The important thing is that we have to be sold out to Jesus. Jesus wants our marriage healed more than we do. You have to choose to forgive your mate. Sometimes I would lock myself in my room and tell the Lord, "Im not coming out until I forgive Bob." About four months before Bob left the other woman, I had given him some material about healed marriages, thinking that he would apply it to our marriage. Bob used this same material to stand for his adulterous marriage. That was a dirty trick Satan pulled on me. He whispered to me that I might as well give up. Bob was a Christian now, standing for his marriage, and I was the fool. I was driving the car, and I jammed on the brakes, stopped the car, and yelled at Satan, "I am a spiritual bull-dog. I have the covenant of my marriage in my teeth, and I will never let go till death do us part." I felt Satan leave. There were a lot of ups and downs as Conchis and my marriage was restored. December 1, 1984, I received an indication from my alien wife that she wanted our marriage to work. She had moved to another state, so I packed up everything and left to be with her. Im not proud of what I did. I was willing to leave my children, my church, my home, EVERYTHING, to follow her. I had my lifes belongings in a trailer. I was on such a high. I was on my way to reconcile with the alien. Gods hand had to be in this. It took me eight or nine hours to get to her home. But as soon as I hit her town, everything began to unravel. I find it difficult to even talk about it now. For thirty days, I went through the closest thing to Hell that I have ever experienced in my life. Everything I had ever done to Conchi, I had done to me. I was stripped of everything, my finances, my job, my health. I lost forty pounds in thirty days. I couldnt eat; I couldnt sleep. Literally, I fell apart. On New Years Eve 1984, I was alone in the house. I was able to talk the doctor into giving me some sleeping pills. Im a fighter; Ive always been a fighter, so this was so unlike me, but I was whipped. During the last thirty days, I had been spending most of my time on my knees, but that New Years Eve night, I grabbed a glass of water and those pills. I was standing in the kitchen, and all the lights were out. I looked up and said, "God if youre real, Youre going to have to do something NOW." About that time, I felt something hit the back of my knees, and I collapsed on the kitchen floor. I knew somebody hit me, yet I was alone in that house. The pills went one direction, the glass of water the other, and as I hit the floor I heard God speak to me. "Bob, its time to go home." That was all I heard God say, and I dont have any idea how long I lay on that floor and bawled. The rest of the night I was oblivious to everything except my time with the Lord. The next day I called Conchi and said, "Its all over." She didnt have the slightest idea what I was talking about. I explained to her the adulterous situation was over, and I was leaving. I had no money; I had no place to go; I had no job; and I didnt even have my health. I filed all the necessary papers to get a divorce, and in three days I was pulling into my buddys yard at 10 oclock at night. I went right over to Conchis, and the first thing I said to her was, "I want you to know something, I dont want to be here." I was being totally honest with her. I let her know I didnt WANT to be there, but I HAD to be there. She was very loving and and kind to me. I was able to live with some good Christian friends. For eight months, Conchi and I were good friends and had beautiful fellowship. We talked about the Word. All I wanted at that point was my relationship with my Lord. One day I was out at the lake walking down to the dock when I heard the voice of God again. His voice was loud and clear. "I want you to go and ask Conchi to marry you." I stopped dead in my tracks. I literally looked up at God and said, "God, you have got to be joking! How can you ask me to marry Conchi when I dont have any physical feelings for her whatsoever? I love her, and I love the fellowship that we have, and she is the mother of my children, and she is very important and dear to me, but I dont feel anything for her. God asked me, "Have you not been walking in obedience, trusting me up to now? Do what I say, and I will restore the feelings." Ill tell you something, asking Conchi to marry me was one of the hardest things I ever did. We had nothing. I went from making $40,000 one year to $100 a week for three months of the next year. That was part of my stripping. God knew that part of my life had to go. The Lord supplied absolutely everything, and twenty years, almost to the day, after our first marriage, Conchi and I renewed our vows. I cried many, many times after I came back home. I told Conchi, "I know God has forgiven me, and I know you have forgiven me. But I still have to face the consequences of what I did." One consequence was that our children were really hurt emotionally by what I did. I want everybody to understand this. When you see the husband or wife doing their thing out in the world, believe what the Word of God says, not what you see. I want to tell you from my own experience, they are in hell. They dont realize it, but they are in hell, and they are hurting, and they are lost, and they are confused. I know how much of a jerk I was, better than anybody. I could portray anything on the outside to whomever, but deep inside, all the time, there was that little ember that said, "This is wrong." Had Conchi reacted to her flesh and chewed me out when I deserved it, it would have been a lot worse. I can emphatically say that it was her persistent commitment that moved me more than anything else. And her prayers . . . I cant tell you how much I could feel her prayers for me. I always knew when she was praying. I love my wife now more than I have ever loved her. I remarried Conchi out of obedience to God, but God was true to His promise, and He has restored my feelings beyond my wildest dream. According to 1 John 5:14, 15, the prayers you pray do not go unanswered, and if they are according to Gods will, we know we have what we have asked. There is only one alternative for your mate if you keep praying. Bob and Conchita Jensen Used with Permission

REPENT HIS TRUTH NEVER CHANGES! "Repent"

Dear Brothers and Sisters, After being disturbed deeply by God all night, with little sleep, I come to you in fear and trembling. Like others perhaps put in your way before, I have been called to warn you of pending disaster, or else be personally blamed by Him if I don't. Your blood will be on my hands if I don't speak, and on your own hands if you don't listen. I am not kidding, exaggerating or being melodramatic. This is direct, serious and of immediate importance to you. Even if you scoff, or don't like me and my kind, it doesn't matter, for I beg you on my knees to listen to what God has said. This is not for the unsaved, it's for you if you call yourself a Christian. Please go to this link and listen to the third last message from the bottom of the page called "Repent". http://www.marriagedivorce.com/messages.php You may say (before you hear), I have already done that, and the Blood of Jesus covers me. No! Don't say that, but GO and Listen first. Afterward, write me at stephen@marriagedivorce.com and I will send you the message "Turn" not published here. It takes off from where "Repent" lands. We will work together as long as it takes. You may call me a radical, or even a heretic but you can't rightfully say either, or fairly think that way until you listen, and hear what the Spirit says to you. Please, stop what you are doing and listen. It's a short message, and God will give you the time. Please, for His sake. http://www.marriagedivorce.com/messages.php Third from the bottom, called "Repent". Chaplain Stephen

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https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Nehemiah-Project-International/215999515270472 PRAYERS ON OUR FACES AND KNEES IN THIS LATTER HOUR 1/2-1 HOUR PER DAY OR MORE!! FASTING AND PRAYING....More info to come. PLEASE JOIN US WORLDWIDE! PRAY!! Nehemiah Challenge Pray for 1 hour per day • Repent o Repent for all known and unknown sin. Ask the Father to reveal to you the areas of your life that you are offending Him. o Repent for the sins of your household and your fathers household • REBUKE the Enemy o Command and speak directly to the enemy and command him to stop blinding your eyes in the areas that you are deceived in and don’t know it. This is CRITICAL as you may be being influenced by the enemy and not even know it! o Bind all Generational Curses, close all gates that were opened through traumatic events in your life, and repent for all personal sins. o Go through the areas of struggle and one by one remind him that he has no authority or power in your life and that he has no right to steal one blessing from your life. • Praise o Praise Him for who He is and for all He has done. Praise His holy name. Praise Him for where you are at in life, no matter how victorious or defeated you feel. Thank him for the opportunity to get to know Him more. Thank Him for all He has shown you so far in your spiritual journey. Tell Him what a privilege it is to sacrifice and suffer for Him and that there is no way to come close to the sacrifice and suffering that His own Son did for us. o Praise Him for providing your daily needs and provision § Be detailed § Be passionate. It matters! § Ps 145-150 is excellent for proclaiming our praise to Him. • Ask Him what you should pray about. o Often we jump right into what we want to pray about without even consulting the one who knows our needs! o Listen for His voice in the quiet moment o Petition His throne the things He begins to bring up in your spirit. Pray His will and His glory in each situation • Pray For Your Life § The number one thing you should pray for is WISDOM. Without it nothing else matters. It is what Solomon asked for and through it he was able to lead an entire kingdom. Finances, relationships and all other aspects of life are dependent on having the mind of YHWH. Beg and plead for it like water! • Pro 3:13 Happy is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding; 14 For her proceeds are better than the profits of silver, and her gain than fine gold. 15 She is more precious than rubies, and all the things you may desire cannot compare with her. § Pray for the Fear of God. • Pro 1: 7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, • Pro 8: 13 The fear of the Lord is to hate evil; Pride and arrogance and the evil way and the perverse mouth I hate. • Pro 15: 16 Better is a little with the fear of the Lord, than great treasure with trouble. § Pray for Understanding, Discernment, Knowledge • Pro 2: 3 Yes, if you cry out for discernment, and lift up your voice for understanding, 4 If you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures; 5 Then you will understand the fear of the Lord, and find the knowledge of God. § Pray that He will reveal and grow your spiritual gifts § Pray that He will destroy any pride in your life

What hurts the most...just like the song by Rascal Flatts :/

So what hurts the most as the world around you including mislead pastors & leadership continue to invite you to "move on" from your first Cov mate of your youth. While you very well knowingly are obeying the Lord to remain single & that you know in your heart as well as see it in the Word that you are not free to remarry. Does it get any easier year after year? The answer-my personal answer is no. It doesn't. As a matter of fact I've written about this before. Feb. Is another hard month for me because it happens to be my husbands birthday early in this month. He's never far from thoughts or prayers anyways. You know that if you are Standing. Just like the lyrics of the song "What hurts the most" would be those unspoken words to each other in which other people simply stood in the way. Those moments that you would have said such & such at so & so timeframes given the chance leading...perhaps extra courage in not failing the mission. Not only were those thoughts and even perhaps those failed plans of action were looking back were indeed planted by a real enemy who family after family. Marriage after marriage continues to rage on in this war for your beloveds soul as well as mine. No exceptions to the rule. This war for Godly cov marriages just like abortion is a killer to a person(s) destiny so is adultery to a lost soul or souls. Putting a ring on it or blurring it out the past so to speak and "moving on" as they say doesn't solve a thing. As a matter of fact it makes things much worse. Not just for the children involved but involving another person into the picture forces an unnatural and unnecessary 3rd and sometimes when a Stander falls into that same pitfall there is a 4th unnecessary person. This doesn't include added relatives that aren't according to the bloodline the Lord intended. Many would argue the fact and then justify this action And sin called remarriage. In Gods Kingdom we are bound to that mate for life until death do they part. No exceptions to Gods rule. What sealed the deal...God, witnesses As well as a cov. Scriptural bond with NO escape clause. That clause was found in the betrothal period not after marriage. The Church of today is in grave error. Proverbs 5 leads to the grave. Your prayers for your one flesh mate is so important. Please continue to fight this good fight in prayer as well as fasting. May you know that the Lord hears & answers your prayers too in this latter season. You may still be hurting yet the Lord is using you to turn others away from seperation or divorce. Your journey has not and will not ever be wasted. If you choose a different course right now knowing what you know about standing for your marriage & remarriage expect God to deal with you. He is final judge & jury. Why would you want extra judgment in a day and age where we are going to see Him soon face to face? Do you still believe? Do you need more prayer? More encouragers to cheer you on to victory? Please know even IF I don't know who you are or where you are the Lord does! If you are Standing for your 1st cov.marriage know that I and many like me are praying them home daily. So what hurts the most is watching others get SO close to restoration of their 1st marriages and then throwing it all away. Our marriages are made by His design. He has a big plan and purpose for our marriages even in the process of the restoration period. Remain steadfast and faithful to the end. If for nothing else but obeying God. Please do this for your mates salvation as well as breaking off sin cycles and ongoing generational curses-cycles. Remember God choose YOU Stand strong even if you are currently hurting and wondering how long. The latter days are promised to be greater! Be watchful & sober. He is with us! He sees the "Big Picture". Trust Him enough in letting Him in putting the puzzle pieces together all for HIS GLORY! Amen We shall SEE His Glory! Just believe & look to Him for all that you are in need of not in greed of today. He will meet you right where you are at today. If you are in a 2nd or 3rd non cov.marriage consider it not strange that the Lord is and has been leading you out. He wants you to remain rightly and teachable again putting that event that never should have taken place (even if there are children born). Get out while you still can. Judgments going to fall on our nations. Be 100% sure you are pure repented with a Godly sorrow. God knows all and sees all. Stop trying to fix that relationship that's been broken from the beginning. Its time to send someone flees mate HOME AGAIN! Be set free from the bondage of darkness. Many are worldly and won't tell you the truth...why because they have justified their ongoing sin as well as know many others. They think they are rightfully justified in Being with someone else s mate who still living. Its Biblical not to be free to remarry. Be sure to point that out to the person you are about to depart from Or the people who don't yet see. Imagine your rewards in Heaven. Many may follow your example. Be of great boldness & courage. Hurt no more from that relationship be set completely free in this hour. Heaven rejoices along with you. You'll see a weight lifted off from you soon. God bless you for your obedience. Sorry this hasn't yet been edited. Blessings beloved.

Holidays... A Standers prospective. Many often wonder does this Stand get any easier as time goes on?

I have had this heavy on my heart these past few days. Many Standers often wonder if this walk & stand gets any easier. I'm sure that simply depends on the deep agape love in which each person is standing for their own mates deliverance(s). There are never any shortcuts in life so why should this phase in our walks be any different? It does get harder waiting month after month and year after year. We are to look to Jesus for our help in times of need. We are never suppose to put our Cov. Mates in the position of an idol or light where Christ ought to be first place. No matter if your mate is with you or seperated from you in this hour they are walking in darkness until they return in a Godly sorrow and complete repentance. Its simply our faithfulness being walked out daily with Him. He wants your mate back on track more than you do. You may even see your mate doing things attending church in this hour. Yet you see no change in their heart towards you or your children. Many Standers question this. They ask why or how can they go to church and yet not yet be changed. How come they keep playing house? Don't they know that they are walking in a fire zone with the enemy? That same enemy that led them astray and in most cases into permanant adultery with the other (or countless others). How can they not see truth set before them? Proverbs 5 in any version of the Bible speaks that of the same and where they will spend eternity. It leads to an early grave. Many ask why do they have to suffer as these prodical mates take their kids for weeks introducing another person as a new replacement. Beloved there is never ever a replacement for the real parent. In most cases these mates are seekings love in all the wrong places (just like the song). They have involved many different people in their life. Ones that they will have to explain that they made a mistake when they return. Or simply never see again because the Lord will speak to them to run and escape the plot of the enemy. God always gives them a way of escape! Trust Him to bring about the needed changes in you first and then them. Your heart needs healing and your faith is being exersized in this latter hour. It is only a test of you being in the fire. Does this walk get easier? Yes in some ways it does. When you first begin Standing and you don't even know what that means you might even find yourself on the floor in a ball feeling so broken and hopeless. You may cry and cry for times that go on forever. I confess that I did just that. The Lord will have you pray for other 1st marriages just like yours because He wants the generation sin cycle broken off your side or their side (sometimes both sides of the family). He wishes for His church the bride to be without spot nor wrinkle standing for rightousness. I can tell you that I along with countless standers have Christmas or other holidays that are harder in some years than others. Some of these wayward mates are involved with people who walk in the complete agreement with ungodly council even IF they are in a church. We are living in dark days where we are called to be the light. We are not better than they are we still have sin. Yet may be called to a higher level in our maturity in our walk. What I am trying to say here is like being under the influence your mate along with the other people they are with (even if they are calling them family now) are all under the influence of not only the world but the enemy himself. People may not yet see the circumstances of their poor choices which many times include injury or even premature death. They think that they are on the right path yet feel uneasy knowing that they need to be home with their Real wife and kids. Does it get easier....sometimes yes. If you are looking to the Lord instead of man being perfect it takes the weight (and wait off). Even IF they are taking photos of each other and YOUR kids and flaunting a so called perfect life...know its a lie of smoke and mirrors. Its just a matter of time and salvation. It takes just one of these wayward people to see the light again and send them off packing. Just like you were broken God will and can break them. Only the when they are walking humble before the Lord can they be used effectively for His Kingdom. So if you are hurting just remember that God hears the prayers of the righteous and in His perfect timing they will be answered. He collects every tear you have cried. Please know that our Prayer team is PRAYING & fasting for you daily. Next year will be different and I pray that God finds you faithful to His calling as well as stronger with heals dug in deeper. Its not your battle its always been HIS!! Only the Lord Jesus Christ will get the GLORY for your restoration to come.. May the next holiday which is quick on our heals find you praising Him instead of crying. His return is one day closer and I pray that your focus is on what you can do serving the Lord instead of an inward focus of perhaps self pity on yourself. He works on us all one day at a time. You are born with a purpose and a calling. Do you accept Jesus as your everything? Or do you simply clock out on holidays worried about why God hasn't done what He has promised and fall into the pit of disparity? He will deliver us all! Amen So get up and rejoice!! Take that bed and walk. You have power in that walk! Sharpen those tools in your spiritual toolbox and then let God do the fighting. There is power in His name!!! No more weakness so quit nursing those wounds. You are set free and delivered in this hour. Your mate will see your bright light. Keep standing trusting and believing its all coming to pass the way the Lord has promised in his Word. Holidays are just another day to God. We should be living like givers everyday as well as celebrating His soon return. Where is your focus? Is it on man made material possessions or eternal treasures that shall never fade away. Better yet are you teaching your children how to battle or just cry whine and give up? They need you to be that spiritual guiding light and example of agape love forgiveness and unconditional love just like Christ. We rejoice along with you as you travail giving birth to this new life in Christ. He is able! Happy and holy holidays!! Be set apart and don't celebrate as this fallen world does. Transform your mind and get into His Word. God less you with truth and freedom this holiday season and new year ahead. It does get easier. I can speak that being a veteran seasoned Stander. This may hit you but they don't stick as much. Why because he's made me stronger and I have faith like a bulldog that will never give up on my marriage or family. I know that the Lord delivers and sets people free. He's no respect or of persons and if He dud it once before He shall do it again! Its not about me...its always been about Him. Stand strong again and look UP! Focus on Him and NOT on the storms around you. I hope you'll choose to dance instead of mourn! Take off those grave clothes. Be set apart and shine like the star you are!! He's got you and your family concerns in the palm if His mighty hand. Put those other people including your mate back on the mercy seat. I hope this helped. Your walk more than likely is normal. If you are new to this Stand please message me by email @ sharon.n@live.com or if you need extra prayers or scriptures. I'm here for you daily. May your days become brighter knowing others have walked this walk before you and are faithfully obeying and serving Him in this ministry of reconsilation internationally. We can council you in the Lord by also visiting our FB page. Sending prayers up right now for all who read and need this encouragement.He IS with YOU believe Him and trust again. Please forgive the silly typos. I need to proof read & edit. Nobodys perfect. Blessings, Sharon

What about Re-marriage to another persons Cov. mate? Gods Word says....

If you don't yet know the answers to these questions ahead without twisting or deleting His written Word I challenge you right now in this hour to find Biblical truth. Not mans logic or laws Gods. Not new versions like the NIV in which many people don't even realize what's been taken out. Why? Because people rely on mans perception and most don't dig deep enough nor do they wish to do so in repentance. Repentance means to completely turn and run away from such sin. Such as Proverbs 5. If you knew the truth that would set you free as well as other captives would you flee the ongoing sin you are currently in? Would you continue on knowing truth waiting to be judged come that sudden judgment day. Its not us as christians judging you. Its presenting the whole truth into the light where sin can be exposed. Not as the world sees it-as God sees it. He is faithful to provide all that you are in need so that you can take the way of escape that He will provide for you. He is calling you HOME to your first love-Jesus. He forgives you completely and wants for you to reconsile with those people whom you hurt the most with your selfishness and sin. He's expecting a complete turn around in this latter day. He plans to use YOU, yes YOU in a mighty way for this final season. You do your part and He will do His. His Word says that you are to reconsile back to the mate of your youth.(scripture) He states in His Word that you are NOT free to remarry unless your mate is no longer living. (Scripture) There is no escape clause church! His Word is clear on this subject and I will today post more on this subject in the days ahead.The New Testament clearly states that you are not free like you may have thought been taught or listened to others exiting your first marriage in which God honors as the only true covenant biblical union. If your mates have died that is a completely different situation. That clearly doesn't mean that you distort and kill off your first mate. Do you want to get right with the Lord? Do you want to get out of the enemies trappings? He's leading you to read this today on purpose. His purpose! The narrow path is the easy path. Perhaps even the relationship you are in has not been a cake walk from day one. Gods been speaking and you have been ignoring Him and fooling everyone around you up until now. The act is up. Its over and you have a way OUT of this pit of distruction and wilderness. What's yours is YOURS...what's theirs is theirs. You knew that going in. You had many gut feelings that it was wrong and you continued to listen to bad council. Perhaps even people who have gone and justified the same actions. You can only be responsible for YOU! If you are the Husband you are called to be the headship over your own family (and the wife of your youth). If you are the Wife you are called to be a jewel that is precious to your first husband. You were given to each other in front of God and witnesses until death do one of you do part. Mans ways are not Gods ways. Church we are in trouble and perilous times if we think wrong is right and right is wrong. He's going to bring judgment on the Church first. If you wish to turn and get right with Him for real today know in your heart that He's been waiting for this hour. Angels rejoice over your return back into rightful relationship. That won't happen without a Godly sorrow which leads us to sorrow. Its lasting life changing he artful repentance all for His glory. You will always be on Gods hook. He hasn't released you to move on. He's released you to go back to your own family asking for their forgiveness first in reconsiliaton (not ever a release from your first assignment nor first marriage). If you have a mate that's been Standing for their mate to return back to their mate of their youth consider yourself very blessed. That one flesh cov.mate from your first (only marriage) is a rare and humbled mate. You have been on your distructive journey learning valuable lessons to teach others not to go down that Proverbs leading to the grave ending. Your first love (and only marriage) mate of your youth has also been humbled and used to help free others. They have lived on pretty much nothing yet persevere on with their children struggling by their sides (in most cases). Why because its what the Lord has called them to do until completion and His great return. Like it or not...its time to get right and GO HOME! Rejoice always because in doing so you'll set others free in your pathway as well. It may not be easy but it will be worth breaking off the generational sin cycles. Please know that we are praying for you to ACT on this immediately no matter what the holiday or date. We pray that its sooner and not too late. God is no respect or of persons and others just like you have shown up on doorsteps as a "suddenly" bought a plane ticket or filled up the gas tank paced up belongings and simply headed home not ever turning back to where they never should have gone in the first place. What is adultery and when does it end? Does it end when a guilty pair partake in an event with each other? What happens to the marriage union in Gods eyes with the first marriage with those mates if they are married for life in the first union. What can break that one flesh 1st marriage union? Nothing its bound in heaven and on earth. Until death do you part. God took that first vow seriously did you? I hope that you will personally study yourself approved and flee from the situation that you are in or headed for thinking that its okay to follow wrong leaders. Gods simply been calling you HOME and this is just one more strong confirmation. Obey Him!!! Please don't choose to die in the wilderness in continued sin. We will be praying for you and other prodacals like you. Come HOME today without delay. We never know the day nor the hour. He wants you to wear that robe of righteousness and crown. Its been waiting for you. Run and catch up to what He would have you to do. I may never meet you here on this earth yet He knows the plans that He has for you. More than likely unless you see me at a speaking engagement in the near future I shall see you in Heaven. Amen God bless you!

We just posted an urgent message....Weve got some Standers in some serious need right now. They need more than prayers. They need quick seasonal action.

Please see my posting back on No. 28th or details. Guys many are getting hit pretty hard right now. Please help. God is using us a the connector of the Dots so to speak. Address has been given. God sees us & if we follow through or walk on past. The time for action and the time to RISE up out from behind the four walls beyond our non understanding Churches is NOW!! God bless you for your obedience in this latter hours. Many will be SO thankful! Looking forward to posting mighty responses of testimonies. He will get the full GLORY...its not about us. Its about the body helping & ministering with what we have in hand (& pocket). Amen